We've got the results of a new survey that's figured out the four things you do WRONG when you're flirting.  Check them out . . .

#1.)  You're too aggressive.  Women say the biggest flirting mistake a guy can make is being too aggressive.  That's even worse than using a bad pick-up line, or making an inappropriate comment.

#2.)  You're condescending.  Men say the biggest flirting mistake a woman can make is EMASCULATING him . . . like offering to give him some money to buy a drink.

#3.)  You think everyone who flirts with you is trying to date you.  The survey found 54% of men and 41% of women will flirt with someone even if they're not interested in pursuing anything.

#4.)  You aren't keeping up with the trends.  The majority of people say that flirting has evolved from being, quote, "coy and giggling" to having a real conversation where you make fun of each other a little bit.

(Zoosk / FemaleFirst)